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July 30th, 2026

Time to announce my little princess …

It’s been now 10 days since my little princess had her first breath in this dimension. Born on July 20 in my own birthplace, called Ypres, I cannot – we could not – be happier or feel more blessed with this little miracle.
We named her Guinevere Sophie-Amor Perl’or, or Gwinn for short, just to make things easier.

In the meantime, the days have flown by, and I am so happy with the time spent in our little cocoon where I feel at home.

As I wrote earlier, and perhaps I will return to this in more detail later, this pregnancy has personally changed me enormously on the outside, my way of interacting with people. Being at home in the land of calm and peace, narrowing my world to the essence of ‘being’, and avoiding drama as much as possible.

Yes, this world we experience has something for everyone. Drama for many, big and small, rich and poor. But for those who have made a long journey within themselves, finding calm and peace in the little things, one’s own home, is above all the greatest treasure one no longer wishes to lose, above all that the external world has to offer.
I take time and prioritize this little being that was added to my/our life in a miraculous way. Every moment with her, even pierced by the illusion of time, means richness to me … because not a single second, minute, or day comes back … so I want to experience it with my fullest awareness, in gratitude and with a big smile on my face.

Yes, we are doing well …

July 10th, 2026

I’ve added some extra articles on homepage:

July 8th, 2026

Time for upcycling while diving deep into myself.

During this time of waiting, the final days and weeks of my pregnancy, I am trying to keep myself usefully occupied here and there with small creative things that I can still manage. I found myself busy upcycling a small dress. I started by cutting into it, then embroidering on it, and this morning I put the finishing touches on painting the leaves.
I have always loved upcycling clothes, furniture... working with waste materials...
Giving things of little value greater value or beauty. I find that blissful.

While I was painting, my thoughts wandered; usually, they go to deep waters where I can find myself, psychologically and philosophically, exploring myself and the world around me.

I asked myself: “What value does this have for yourself, and what value does it have in potentially sharing it with others? Why am I doing this?”

My conclusion was simple and straightforward:

- I create things because I enjoy creating: upcycling, jewelry, drawings, …
- I write, not to be read, but because I love writing.
- I share, not because I have to, but because it is nice to share the beautiful aspects of life.
- I do the things I love to do, because they are an expression of my deepest human being, …

and in this expression we share positive love, a fragrance that can be perceived by those who, at this very moment, need to be encouraged to express their deepest being—the little things of life without external pressure, simply being allowed to be who we are and to get to know ourselves at the deepest level.

Meanwhile i have been updating this page as well with a new poem in dutch. Feel free to read.
https://wiesjeverpeut.com/jewelry-art-words-poetry/sealed-scrolls#het-verweven-van-de-koning

And here …
my one and only pregnancy picture, lol …
with an other upcycled dress -
how i long for this belly
to be empty again … hahaha

June 26th, 2026

Passed/graduated –
gemstone setting –
jury exam 25/06/2026

A dream come true when I was allowed to start this course; now, two years later,
I know that the real learning only begins now, after passing the exam. Just like goldsmithing, gemstone setting requires a huge amount of practice.
And that is what I will have to focus on in the coming period,
but first, the birth of our little daughter…

Yes, first things first…

Yet amidst all of this, there is primarily that gratitude that I was allowed to examine this craft more closely (literally and figuratively, lol), where there was no reason to earn money, no direction to where i wanted to head, but simply to follow my heart to learn things in this human experience that fascinates me, allowing whatever else may come of it.

To be continued …

Jewel whose gemstones had to be set for my jury exam gemstone setting: two castle settings and a chaton setting. I graduated.

Jewel whose gemstones had to be set for my jury exam gemstone setting: two castle settings and a chaton setting. I graduated.
Follow up my gemstone setting on this specific page

June 19th, 2026

A fantastic time later, …
everything simpler, more peaceful, more breathing…
and above all, much freer …
i am here with my first update …

During my pregnancy, I had an ocean of time to think about which direction life calls me once our little girl arrives.
And the only thing I wanted – and still want – is a simple life
or the simplicity of life with as few obligations as possible while letting go of having to ‘meet expectations’…

Meanwhile, life goes on, and something kept bringing me back to my outdated business cards and the fact that I no longer had anything to give people that was ‘up to date’. But as always, I can’t create anything without having visualized it or without a deep peacefulness overwhelming me… so a slumber lingered like an item on a ‘to-do’ list that keeps getting postponed. (who recognizes this? hahaha)

But then I started designing the birth announcements for our little girl… which led me to the idea of: “Let me, … instead of business cards, … making those good old ‘postcards’ again, with my details just ‘coincidentally’ included on them.” - i tell you: happy, peaceful feeling, like: “yes, this is it!”
Then wondering: “But what exactly should be written on it?” …
Just a little later, I saw my first post on my Instagram account,
a small drawing I once made with the text:

“LOVE, your very being.”

Encouraging words, because they can be interpreted in different ways. So I added on the back: “Love your very being by knowing that LOVE … is your very being.”

Believe it or not, it gave me such a boost to get back to work, to create things, to write, to fantasize, and above all… to share here again.

And then, I had only just put the postcards into production when a friend contacted me:
“Wiesje, your old postcards that I always used to send to my clients from my coaching practice have run out… do you still have any?”

With a smile, because the timing of the universe invariably continues to surprise us, I was able to tell her that I had just made new ones.
Her package of postcards left earlier today.

What an encouragement to be able to be an encouragement to others, each in our own way. Even though I realize that we live in times when love among people is growing cold, I will continue to say that love, first for ourselves and from there towards others, is what binds us all together.

Let me know if i can make you happy with some of these postcards as well … i still have some left over. lol.

See you soon for another update!

The 2 pillars

May 1st 2025

Can you imagine, it’s been such a while that I did not have the time
to write in my diary and rarely I wrote on my blog.
Time doesn’t wait for my words,
rather it fills my life with flow,
new horizons and treasured moments.

The funny thing is that I almost long
for my working hours in the factory in the hope
that I would have some minutes to write.
And here I am,
Aviko present,
my phone in my hands
and typing letter by letter.
Yes, slower than on my laptop,
but still with a wide smile on my face.

And I've got so much to share.
On the one hand quite some new insights came
– I admit, my brain is still digesting.
On the other hand,
I saw so many of my closest ones lately,
had catch-up time
and felt a deep longing to meet and help those that live far away.

It brought me back to this time around 4 years ago,
when I went for the second time to Pakistan.
One week of conference and spiritual gatherings.
Another week to look deeper into the possibilities of setting up a business.
Those two pillars have always interested me:
- building up the inner person of the people of the land,
- while meanwhile looking into ways to make the outward life for them better.

But first, life took a detour.
I had to learn what true surrender meant.
Not a gentle letting go, but a deep, irreversible dissolving.
A moment that can’t be undone.

I had to surrender my entire mind to the soul
— to let go of the 'I' that still tried to understand, to calculate,
to manifest, to survive.
Yes, I had to stop living from the 'I' altogether.

Because here is the truth:
for practices like mindfulness or the law of attraction to work,
the ‘I’ must stay alive.
There must be a someone who wants, who desires, who aligns.
But once you pass into the soul, that structure collapses.
Not because it was bad
— but because it was never who you really were.

And so, I no longer live.
Life now lives through me.
And that, dear reader,
changes everything.

So… it wouldn’t be such a surprise that I came back to that first longing,
these two pillars that were already growing.
Though I tell you, every seed first has to die, before it can grow.
It has to split, and in that combination of water and soil,
heat and the breath of life,
male and female,
things just start to sprout again.
Different than I had thought first?
Definitely… but also definitely better!
Yes, the soul has split and will bring forth the life it always had in it…
in manyfold!

The last days the universe is showing me these two pillars again:
building the inner person – letting people know whom they truly are (is that not the reason I am writing here?)
And looking for business-wise ways to grow in help of others in need.

Because, as I shared already before: there is no lack in my life.
And I gently smile deeply when I write this.
But the last days I felt the arms of the universe in love around me
for every little detail of my life that has been provided.
Do I feel lucky? YES!
But so can you!
Do I feel loved? YES!
But so can you!

Talk soon, my dear gentle readers,
of whom I am the first one 🤣🤣🤣

05.01.25

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